Is eloping selfish or disrespectful to family Absolutely not. Choosing to elope means you’re prioritizing what will best serve you and your partner, not excluding people you love. Over 60% of people associate words like “adventure,” “freedom,” and “romance” with elopements, and 92% said they wouldn’t think negatively if someone eloped.

Many families understand and support couples who choose to elope to Costa Rica, especially when you communicate your reasons clearly. You can always celebrate with family afterward through a reception, dinner, or viewing party for your elopement photos and video. What matters most is that your wedding day reflects your values and relationship.